There’s something in the air the week. It feels like a week of rapid transformation. Or deterioration. Or both. If I were to lay it all out, you wouldn’t believe the shit I’ve been facing. And it’s only Thursday. In general, I feel that I am a pretty selfless person. But man…this week…it’s been allContinue reading “Strength, insecurity, dignity, grace, fear, faith…all the bloody things”
Category Archives: relationships
Stalled out
A long time ago, I had a car that I lovingly called the blue bomb. Friends gave her to me. It was a beater Subaru…banged up door, years past its prime. I was thankful for the blue bomb. There was one catch with it at the beginning. It had a standard transmission. I was anContinue reading “Stalled out”
Rebooting
The trees are budding here in Philadelphia, and we’re expecting our second nor-easter in less than a week. What the heck is going on with the world? In some ways, I feel like the weather right now is reflective of the journey that I’ve been on for the past few months. Times where I’m reallyContinue reading “Rebooting”
Who’s in your tribe?
I live in a city of a couple million people. There are times that life in the city is fantastic. People from nearly every culture are represented. My city is infamous for its sports fans. I mean, who throws ice balls at Santa? Oh yeah…Eagles fans 🤦♀️ But I digress. I’ve lived in this cityContinue reading “Who’s in your tribe?”
Ambiguity
I’m in an ambigous place right now. I love my life. My job(s) are going really well. I’ve adjusted to the dental industry–specifically in a dental office–fairly well. Sometimes it still doesn’t feel like a real job. I love the consultation part of my life. Planning, executing and seeing the end results are veryContinue reading “Ambiguity”
Commitment
The irony of commitment is that it is deeply liberating-in work, in play, in love. The act frees you from the tyranny of your internal critic, from the fear that likes to dress itself up and parade around as rational hesitation. To commit is to remove your head as the barrier to your life. ~AnneContinue reading “Commitment”
One track mind
The other night someone asked me why I’m not dating. I didn’t know how to answer. I always stumble on these questions. It was a really short conversation, but it made an impact. The answer lay within me…of this I’m sure. I’ve spent time making up excuses, but I’ve come to the realization that IContinue reading “One track mind”
Deneen White 