Dichotomy

Last night, on my way into the city, I stopped at Wawa for some money.  As I was walking into the store, I noticed minivans and small SUV’s driven by men and women, tired from a long day of carting their kids to and fro.  I, on the other hand, was dressed, preparing for aContinue reading “Dichotomy”

Two pretty guys and a lady walk into a bar

You know what?  I have a pretty good life.  I’m going to be 33 in two weeks, and last night I realized something.  I am set in my ways.  I have a good job.  I don’t really answer to anyone.  I enjoy my freedom.  I had dinner with my friend, and then we went back to hisContinue reading “Two pretty guys and a lady walk into a bar”

You should really enjoy this time

The range of responses one receives when writing about singleness is astonishing.  My mom really floored me when she commented on the blog about divorce.  We had a talk about how I know that it’s irrational for me to be afraid of divorce, and how I know that my grandparents loved each other until hisContinue reading “You should really enjoy this time”

Latest series

It seems that my posts on relationships from my perspective…you know, that of a single gal, seem to be causing a little bit of a stir. I’m NOT anti-marriage.  I can’t just see some reasons why some people wouldn’t want to get married. I’m NOT looking to rush into marriage…or into a relationship.  Being singleContinue reading “Latest series”

Many of the married people I know aren’t all that happy

I know lots of married people that are not happy.  They look at one another with contempt.  They say, verbally or non-verbally, that they wish they had never gotten married.  The mutter the “d” word..divorce, that is.  They fight over the most mundane things–what brand of dish soap is next to the sink, food shopping. Continue reading “Many of the married people I know aren’t all that happy”

What’s goin’ on?

I’m finding it difficult to write anymore.  A blog friend called me on the carpet today.  He asked me where my passion has gone.  I was stunned.  In the best possible way. Right now, I find myself creatively constipated.  I spend the bulk of my days right now “creating” tri-fold brochures.  They are all theContinue reading “What’s goin’ on?”

What is a single girl to do?

OK.  I have a question.  I am in a bit of a dilemma.  That may not be the correct word.  Perhaps quandry? Last weekend I spent some time with a friend of mine.  He and I have had several discussions on dating and how dishonest women are.  He doesn’t understand why going out for drinksContinue reading “What is a single girl to do?”

Valentine’s Day

I think that Valentine’s Day is a wonderful day that has been set aside to show people that you love them.  Thank God we have Hallmark to remind us, for one day, to love people.  In case Jesus didn’t stress it enough in the Bible.  I don’t know why, but this day seems to bring out insecuritiesContinue reading “Valentine’s Day”