Growing up, I always identified as smart. Ok…if I’m honest, that’s what I still identify with. Why? Well, it started with the voices that I allowed to shape my identity. For me, fun always equated with stupid (yes, super judgmental, I know) so I always prefer to be intense over fun. Something else that I’veContinue reading “Triggers”

Hypocritical confessional

Today I realized that I am hypocritical.  I know that doesn’t surprise many of you 🙂 I’ve had an extended dialogue about dating that has been going on for months now.  Literally months.  I keep talking about how dating is good…how people shouldn’t be afraid of dating.  Then I realized that it’s not like I’veContinue reading “Hypocritical confessional”